I think “decent body” includes the head. lol ! I think both sexes can be superficial but in different ways but theres also decent people out there genuinely looking for a connection. I think its bad manners to demand details of another’s financial situation and judge them on that.
Use it as a complimentary avenue in addition to meeting women in the real world. That way you won’t be left frustrated as online dating heavily favours women given that guys play the numbers game by messaging every women. Both men and women are to blame for online dating being a time waster.
they say that on profiles because they get 100 men messaging them per day and it’s cut down the amount of unwanted messages.
most women on dating websites prefer 5 messages a day from the type of men they want than having to go through 100 messages per day and waste their time reading and replying.
i used to be on online dating sites. i didn’t have those stuff on my profile but i got a minimum of 200 messages per day. after the first week. i felt overwhelmed with the amount of messages and didn’t even bother reading the messages anymore after the first week cos of how overwhelmed i felt. it would’ve taken me maybe 2 hours+ per day to read everyones message, then read their profiles, then come up with a nice reply.
I chatted to a guy on a dating sight who complained about a date wanting to have sex with him too soon, very weird indeed
what made it worse was i would often get mean messages from men when i don’t reply calling me rude for not replying.
if i had a choice over receiving 200 messages a day from every man or 5 messages per day from the types of guys i wanted. Continue reading “Don’t waste your time using online dating as a primary means of meeting women”